" HAND IN HAND.....
HEART IN HEART....."
THIS IS A DAY WE BEGIN ADVENTURE OF LIFE TIME
"MARRIAGE", It is all about two different souls who are grown up at different environments living together under one roof to set a new environment. There are no winners or losers, there is only one term called 'compromise'. Loving your compromises is all about 'successful marital life'.
When do we love our compromise? For this thing to happen we need to understand one other properly. This doesn't happen in jiffy, it takes time. Primary task is to understand your spouse interest and happiness. By doing what he/she will be happy. In some cases your spouse will be happy when you respect her/his parents or when you give priority to her/his parents. Or anything else, just try to know it and implement it for a happy and successful life. Next comes your family,for a happy marital life, along with your spouse, your parents and in-laws also has a big role in marital life. Just be welcoming, accept your spouse siblings and relatives as your own relatives or more than that. More than that because your parents and siblings can understand the situation your in. But, it is not same on other side....
Life is not always the same. There are always up and downs. When there is happiness there must be sorrow also. Or else, we will never know the flavor or essences of happiness. In some situations your spouse will be angry or upset or sad with some situation in office or house or with his siblings. Try to know the reason behind that in a friendly way and by saying 'Everything will be alright' or 'I know, you can manage with the situation better' or anything which builds up there confidence or by giving a good, wisely advice can help the situation better. Bad moods or misunderstandings these may also happen with your in-laws. Then, just give them there free space to think about it and resolve the problem by themselves. In that span of time, you just behave normally as every other day. If you show your mood fluctuations then, the situation will get worse. These are the few steps for happy marital life.
(Remember, Decisions are never right or wrong. Your the one who make it right. Experience teaches you many things, accept your faults take them as lessons of life and never commit them again. This is the valuable gift we can give our parents or loved ones.)
Life is not always the same. There are always up and downs. When there is happiness there must be sorrow also. Or else, we will never know the flavor or essences of happiness. In some situations your spouse will be angry or upset or sad with some situation in office or house or with his siblings. Try to know the reason behind that in a friendly way and by saying 'Everything will be alright' or 'I know, you can manage with the situation better' or anything which builds up there confidence or by giving a good, wisely advice can help the situation better. Bad moods or misunderstandings these may also happen with your in-laws. Then, just give them there free space to think about it and resolve the problem by themselves. In that span of time, you just behave normally as every other day. If you show your mood fluctuations then, the situation will get worse. These are the few steps for happy marital life.
(Remember, Decisions are never right or wrong. Your the one who make it right. Experience teaches you many things, accept your faults take them as lessons of life and never commit them again. This is the valuable gift we can give our parents or loved ones.)
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