Techno Kids

 Lal: "Hey kal why are you using this phone, you use to use a smart phone right!"

Kal: "Yes Lal, my daughter threw my smart phone out of the window and it broke into pieces...." 
Lal: "Is it so...! Don't worry kids are like that. Even my son broke ipad while playing with talking                 rapper."
 Kal: "Oh I see!" 

     Well, I know I am too young to say 'change in generation....'. There is loads of change from the kids I have seen 10 years back  to 2013's kids. They are more interested to play with gadgets rather than toys. Modern mothers play a cartoon show on there ipads or laptops or any fancy device, to feed there kids. Well we can't find any stray dog or a cat or anything other than pollution outside in this concrete jungle!      

         This technology is keeping kids really very busy. Even when we are at our friends place or relatives, they are busy chatting or playing. Well, I am not against modernization. But, I feel there must be a limit on everything. There are always advantages and disadvantages with the technology. I feel all the advantages are used by very few people while, others are victims of the disadvantages. Kids are more fascinated to play games on mobiles. Even on the road! While daddy drives, baby plays with daddy's phone by sitting behind him on his two wheeler! Till what extent we have to encourage our kids? I am sure that poor dad he is not aware that his daughter is playing with cellular phone. But even kid is not aware of the danger and game designers are also not the culprits. Even a traffic police can't do anything with that kid! Because she is so small to understand the term 'Safety'. There is a age limit on everything we being parents should consider them and act accordingly.

Martial Life

                                                          " HAND IN HAND.....
                                                             HEART IN HEART....."
                        THIS IS A DAY WE BEGIN ADVENTURE OF LIFE TIME

                    "MARRIAGE", It is all about two different souls who are grown up at different environments living together under one roof to set a new environment. There are no winners or losers, there is only one term called 'compromise'. Loving your compromises is all about 'successful marital life'. 

When do we love our compromise? For this thing to happen we need to understand one other properly. This doesn't happen in jiffy, it takes time. Primary task is to understand your spouse interest and happiness. By doing what he/she will be happy. In some cases your spouse will be happy when you respect her/his parents or when you give priority to her/his parents. Or anything else, just try to know it and implement it for a happy and successful life. Next comes your family,for a happy marital life, along with your spouse, your parents and in-laws also has a big role in marital life. Just be welcoming, accept your spouse siblings and relatives as your own relatives or more than that. More than that because your parents and siblings can understand the situation your in. But, it is not same on other side.... 

Life is not always the same. There are always up and downs. When there is happiness there must be sorrow also. Or else, we will never know the flavor or essences of happiness. In some situations your spouse will be angry or upset or sad with some situation in office or house or with his siblings. Try to know the reason behind that in a friendly way and by saying 'Everything will be alright' or 'I know, you can manage with the situation better'  or anything which builds up there confidence or by giving a good, wisely advice can help the situation better. Bad moods or misunderstandings these may also happen with your in-laws. Then, just give them there free space to think about it and resolve the problem by themselves. In that span of time, you just behave normally as every other day. If you show your mood fluctuations then, the situation will get worse. These are the few steps for happy marital life. 

(Remember, Decisions are never right or wrong. Your the one who make it right. Experience teaches you many things, accept your faults take them as lessons of life and never commit them again. This is the valuable gift we can give our parents or loved ones.)

Gossiping

Kal : Did you see Chac's armlet? I heard her husband bought it for 2000 bugs!
Lal: Yes, I heard about it. You know her mother-in-law was very angry about this, may be she might be                   jealous of that proposal made by her son.
Kal: But whats the use, she took it off and kept in cupboard in between the ceremony and afterwards she    took that out again and wore it. May be she has some problem with that expensive thing.
Lal: Oh you think so! You are so innocent Kal, Its some kind of propaganda to her armlet.
Kal: Oh my gosh! I didn't think of it.
Lal: But it is...
Kal: Hmm...

( On the same days)

Lal's husband: Hey lal, Did you enjoy the marriage? You know what happened today, Chac's husband came to know about my salary and designation. He is like awestruck.
Lal: Oh I see.
Lal's husband: Is everything alright? Are you upset with anything?
Lal: Actually when you are in that position then why don't I have jewels similar or more than her?
   (Lal's husband, doesn't know what to say and that man stood in front of her with on sign on his face)
Lal: Why are you calm now? In what way I am lesser to her?
Lal's husband: (After 2 minutes of silence in between them) Why do you think in that way, First of all, they are elder to us. Secondly, after few years you may get all the things accordingly. (By putting his hands across her shoulders) Don't worry dear.
Lal: Why not this year? I made up my mind I will buy some expensive ornament this year!
Lal's husband: Yeah definitely, I will do that for you.
Lal: Then when shall we place the order? Shall we call our goldsmith tomorrow...
Lal's Husband: Lal Lal... I thought of surprising you with a emerald necklace. I asked Vijay (gold smith) regarding it. He said that he will email me all the details regarding that.
Lal: Ahaaaa.. Don't bluff...
Lal's husband: Why will I bluff you? What do I earn by doing that? You should trust me or else call vijay and cross check with him.
Lal: No. I didn't mean that. Are you sure that I will get a necklace by this year end...
Lal's Husband: Definitely, on our wedding anniversary you will wear that.
Lal: Wow honey. I love you so much..
Lal's husband: I too dear. Now its time to sleep, tomorrow I have a meeting at early hours.
Lal: Okay okay. Good night dear.
           (But lal is still thinking by looking at the ceiling and her husband slept. After some time)
Lal: Dear dear..
Lal's huband: Now what dear??
Lal: I am just thinking.. Shall I order bangles along with necklace...
    (Poor husband who is shocked and worried with the upcoming bill from Vijay. Just said "Let us think of it tomorrow")


Days went on happily. Lal and her husband are busy with there daily chores. Suddenly one day Lal's house bell rang. Lal left her half washed dish in the sink and went running to answer. And it was Chac..!

Lal: Hey hi! What a surprise Chac!
Chac: Yeah, before I fly back I thought of staying in your house for a while. Sorry, I didn't intimate you before.
Lal: Hey I am happy with your decision.
  (Lal served lunch for Chac and after that they both sat in the living room)
Chac: Lal, lunch was so delicious.
Lal: oh thanks a lot.
Chac: Really Lal I can't make lunch this tasty as you do...
Lal: I don't think so. Anyways thanks a lot Chac.
     (Chac by opening her suitcase)
Chac: Hey I almost forgot. I have to show you something.
Lal: What is that?
  (Chac took out a red colored jewelry case from her suit case )
Chac: My husband gifted me this diamond necklace on the occasion of our wedding anniversary. It is about 10000 bugs.
  (Lal eyes turned green with envy)
Lal: Oh oh really! I am happy for you Chac. You are the most luckiest person.
Chac: Hahaha.. Thank you. You know he is so romantic.


(That evening Lal was not comfortable to talk to Chac but, she some how managed to stay with her. All of a sudden Chac got a telephone call from her husband and they are leaving that evening to her husband's native place. By listening that Lal was extremely happy. She waited for her husband, as soon as he came from his office showered all her doubts and requirements on that poor guy. Lal's husband ran head over heels to convince Lal. )